"There is certainly no absolute standard of beauty. That precisely is what makes its pursuit so interesting."
Am I ugly or beautiful? There is no absolute standard of beauty, according to John Kenneth Galbraith.
John Kenneth Galbraith
U.S. Diplomat, Economist, Author

Affirmations to feel beautiful

  • I am extremely beautiful.
  • I’m a gorgeous person!
  • Everything about me is unique.
  • My nose and lips are flawless. My eyes are mesmerizing!
  • I love how I look. I wouldn’t change it for the world!
  • My body is perfect. My butt is exactly the right size for me.
  • I love my body! I take care of it by eating right and exercising.
  • I’m an extremely good looking person, and I feel it!
  • My breasts are perfect, just as they are!
  • I love myself, and I feel beautiful.

Am I ugly or beautiful?

Learn the Secret to REAL Self-Esteem!

Am I ugly or beautiful? Body positivity affirmations will help with insecurity a LOT more than a trip to the plastic surgeons office.

The fact that you’re asking this question suggests a much bigger problem than how you look. 

How well you handle this problem will determine the quality and course of your entire life.

Fix it, and you’re likely have a wonderful and prosperous existence. Don’t, and you’ll be in a world of hurt until you do.

Let me explain.

The real problem.

Am I ugly or beautiful? Body positivity affirmations will program you to love your own body.

You can be the most beautiful person in the world, but if you’re insecure inside, you’ll never feel beautiful. No amount of praise from me, or your parents, or your friends, or even millions of people around the world can ever make you feel beautiful.

You have to do it on your own. 

Don’t believe me?

How many Hollywood actresses in their physical primes, already famous for their beauty, have gone under the knife for a nose job? I’m not talking about before they got famous. I’m talking about after!

These actresses have millions of adoring fans across the world telling them they’re beautiful exactly as they are. They’ve got fashion designers begging them to wear their clothes.

They’re on the cover of magazines. These magazines might actually list them in the top “100 Most Beautiful People in the World.”

And they STILL get a nose job.

If the most expensive clothes in the world, and millions of adoring fans, and even fashion photographers telling them they’re beautiful can’t make them feel it, do you think a nose job can?

Of course not. 

Self esteem is an inner issue. You can’t fix it from the outside.

Am I ugly or beautiful:

When you love your looks, other people find you more attractive, too!

Root Chakra Affirmations

However you feel about yourself, others tend to take you at your word.

Why is it that when it comes to certain clothes, some people can “pull it off,” and others can’t?

Don’t tell me it’s a consequence of how well the clothes fit, or a person’s body type, because this phenomenon happens with jewelry, too. It happens with shoes. It happens with hairstyles and hair colors.

Some people can “pull it off,” and others can’t.

The answer is confidence. If you wear anything with enough confidence, it will look good on you. Self esteem – loving how you look – literally makes you more beautiful. It makes you magnetic.

It’s such a rare quality, and everyone wishes they had it. When they see it in you, it becomes intoxicating. It makes potential suitors see you as the prize.

Am I ugly or beautiful:

Other people’s opinions are useless.

Am I ugly or beautiful?

Most of us have a bad habit of looking to others for how we should think. We look at magazines for tips on how to dress. We copy celebrity hair styles.

But look how often clothing styles, and hairstyles, and even preferred body types change.

Butterfly collars and platform shoes were aesthetically pleasing in the 1970’s. Now they look ridiculous.

In the 1980’s, petite figures where “in” for women. In the 2000’s, every girl wanted a big butt, even to the extent of injecting it with toxic chemicals to make it bigger!

At one time, large breasts were “in,” which lead to women paying huge money for huge implants. This fad eventually gave way to smaller breasts being favored. Lots of women who had already gone under the knife regretted it.

People’s opinions of what’s beautiful and what isn’t is constantly changing. It’s amorphous. It’s vacuous. It isn’t real. 

Trying to keep up with it is a recipe for disaster. Judging yourself by society’s constantly fluctuating concept of beauty is insane.

Decide for yourself that you’re beautiful. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks!

Am I ugly or beautiful:

Who are you going to ask, anyway?

Will you ask your boyfriend?

If he tells you that you’re beautiful, the voice inside your head will reply, “He’s just saying that because he’s my boyfriend.”

Will you ask your parents?

If they tell you that you’re beautiful, the voice inside your head will reply, “They’re just saying that because they’re my parents.”

God help you if you ask a plastic surgeon for their opinion. They’ve got a financial incentive to the tune of $526,000 per year, on average, to prey on your insecurities.

A no-win situation.

signs of low self esteem in a woman

When it comes to whether you’re ugly or beautiful, stop seeking the opinion of others. Nothing good can come from it.

If they say you’re ugly, your going to feel bad. If they say you’re beautiful, congratulations; You’ve just become a little bit more dependent on the fickle, unpredictable, and often contradictory opinions of other people.

Cindy Crawford was the most famous and highest paid super model of her time. When she first went to a modeling agency, she was told to get the mole on her face removed because it was ugly!

But she had high self esteem, so she kept her face exactly as it was. In time, that mole became her trademark – a quirk that made her unique and special.

It's about more than just your looks.

Am I ugly or beautiful?

Arnold Schwarzenegger was told he’d never make it in Hollywood because of his thick accent. They said he had to change his last name, his father’s name, because it was too difficult to spell, and it sounded too foreign.

But he had high self esteem, so he kept his name and refused to be discouraged because of the accent. In time, his unusual last name, as well as his accent, became trademarks – quirks that made him unique and special.

You’re unique and special, too.

Why would you care what other people think of you? Why would you want to look like anyone other than you?

Am I ugly or beautiful:

Rare is beautiful!

I collect G-Shock watches.

Most models come in black. Some come in gray.

But Casio occasionally releases old, classic models is really wild colors. If these trippy color schemes were part of the normal offering, they might not sell very well.

But because these “special edition” G shocks are so rare, they’re often worth 3 or 4 times the normal color! The more rare something is, the more we perceive it to be beautiful and valuable.

You’re rare. There’s only one of you. Don’t f*ck that up.

You wouldn’t take a $400 Japanese import G-shock with the trippy color scheme, and paint it black like the standard model, would you? Don’t do it to yourself, either.

Embrace your looks. No one else has them!

Am I ugly or beautiful:

If only you could read their minds.

Who do you, personally, think is beautiful? Is there anyone on TV, or in magazines, or anywhere in the world, who you consider physically perfect?

I guarantee if you could read their mind, you’d hear them complaining about their body and face. They probably think their legs are crooked, or their toes are weird, or arms are too thick. 

Insecurity is the human condition.

Thick girls wish they were skinny. Skinny girls wish they were thick.

Women with straight hair wish it was curly. Women with curly hair constantly straighten it!

No matter how perfect a woman’s breasts are, even if they’re told over and over that they’re perfect, they always seem to wish they were bigger, or smaller, or different in some way. 

To me, that’s tragic.

Am I ugly or beautiful:

Whatever you have now, try to enjoy it while it lasts!

Millions of teenage boys fell in love with Carrie Anne Fischer when she played Princess Leia in a gold bikini (Return of the Jedi, for you non-nerds out there).  Men are still in love with Leia! 

Sadly, she never felt beautiful.

Before passing away at the age of 60, she lamented not realizing in her youth how gorgeous she was. She wished she had known, so she could have enjoyed it more.

I just want to know am I ugly or beautiful! What’s the REAL answer?

The answer is to stop thinking of it as something related your physical self. You want to feel beautiful. You have a right to feel beautiful.

That comes 100% from your mind, and nowhere else.

Contrary to what plastic surgeons would have you believe, you can’t fix mental problems by cutting off parts of your body, or by inserting or injecting things. 

You can’t do it any more than you can fix structural problems with your house by mowing the lawn. They’re two totally different things!

The issue is not what you look like. It’s how you think.

To fix the problem, you’ve got to change how you think about yourself, and that takes training!

Affirmations permanently change your mentality!

Think anything often enough, and it becomes a habit to think it. Mental habits are hard to break.

Perhaps you were teased as a kid. Maybe you were neglected. But something happened to make you start questioning your looks. You did it so often, it became a habit.

Repetition got you into this mess, and repetition will get you out!

The more times you tell yourself you’re beautiful, the more it becomes a habit to think that way.

That’s how affirmations work. It’s all about repetition.

The more you affirm that you love your looks, the more you will love your looks, and then your whole life will improve.

Am I ugly or beautiful:

The Method!

Read these affirmations every single day for, 5 minutes straight.

Print out the PDF sheet and keep it in a binder. Read it somewhere quiet, where you won’t be distracted by people or pets.

Set a countdown timer, so that your mind is free to concentrate solely on the affirmations, instead of wondering how much time has elapsed. (You can also watch the video at the top of this page.)

After just a minute or two, you’ll begin to feel your mind quieting down. It will feel like meditation, or a mild form of hypnosis.

That’s great! It means your unconscious mind is getting with the program, and accepting the training it’s now receiving.

5 minutes.

If you’re serious about fixing your self esteem and actually feeling beautiful, then these are the most important 5 minutes of your day.

How do you know when the affirmations are working?

You won’t feel as insecure anymore. You’ll walk with more confidence. You’ll speak louder and clearer.

You’ll wear whatever clothes you want to wear, because you like them, and nobody else. 

The world will sense this in you. They’ll automatically respect you more, because they’ll know their opinions don’t affect you.

You’ll stop asking yourself, “am I ugly or beautiful?” You’ll know that you’re beautiful! You’ll feel it in your bones!

 At that point, the whole world will find you more attractive simply because of the change in energy you’re giving off. It’s a change that starts in the mind.

Do the affirmations. You are beautiful.

It’s all for nothing unless you believe it.

Good luck!

-Tommy

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